When I was four years old, I lived with my mom, dad, and brother in an old rented farmhouse.
A Big Dream
I have small fragments of memory from my first home, but few of them are happy memories. The upstairs bedrooms were cold and dark, with tiny windows that filled the place with shadowy dreams. I shared a room with my brother because we were so close in age. We didn’t have many furnishings in the drafty old house.
Outside, farmyard chickens chased me and pecked my skinny legs. The backyard was a steep hill, great for flying down the bank in the Red Ryder wagon, but not good for much else. My dad was a resourceful and hard-working man. He and Mom wanted a house of their own. This was a big dream for two people with less than $100 in their pockets. Even in 1966, $100 didn’t buy much of a house.
Hard Work Pays Off
Uprooting a House
Moving Day
As the Monday moving day came closer, my mom debated whether to go watch her house arrive at its new location. Many risks were involved in moving a two-story house. Besides, she’d made daily visits to the structure, taking supper to Dad, who spent long days at the engine shop and long evenings where the highway would be built. I’m sure she’d already planned the arrangement of a Formica-topped dinette set, the brown scratchy living room suite, the crib, and nursery items for the surprise my brother and I hadn’t anticipated. Watching her dreams and the financial gamble moving along old Route 22 behind a tractor-trailer would surely put her stomach in knots.
House Tipping
Another Move
Late in January, we relocated to the movable house. Dad built stairs to the front, side, and back doors until he could rebuild the porches. The living room, bedroom suites, and a few wine-colored laminate end tables were loaded into a friend’s milk truck, emptied of the round metal canisters of his trade.
That May, my sister joined the family. With four upstairs bedrooms, I no longer needed to share a room with a sibling.
In time, the basement grew into a playground for hordes of children. Eventually, we sat on the front porch to wave at passing cars and chat with visitors. The backyard was sometimes used as a football field and a baseball diamond. The attic held treasures and secret Christmas gifts. My mom surrounded the house with rose bushes and flower beds.